It's about understanding ourselves, so we can see how to synchronize ourselves with reality to get better equilibrium. Find out, whether you are really sensual or you are sensual just because affected by situation (temporarily) and more ..., or seek your goal and the way to achieve your goal, so you can see why there was something wrong. You may give it a try and use the information to synchronize yourself with reality by having better tolerance, correction nor compensation for better equilibrium. Thank you, have a nice day :)